I know that you’ve heard it from teachers, family, and obnoxious TV show parents, but any partner who dumps you for not having sex isn’t worth your time! I just never thought Taylor Swift, who seems like the queen of dating (if not the queen of finding love or the queen of happy relationships) would need to hear it! We’ve been speculating about their break up since news hit, and reports are all over the place: Taylor was too old; Harry Styles was cheating; Taylor’s dad disapproved; Harry didn’t want to split up One Direction–the list goes on and on! But where’s the truth?
A new source claims that Harry dumped Taylor because she’s “so concerned that the public will think she’s a whore because she dates around, that she doesn’t put out. What she doesn’t get is that guys keep dumping her because she’s being a prude.” That’s not to say the couple never got hot and heavy, as photos of them leaving her hotel room have shaken the interent. “While it was clear she obviously had a thing for Harry, Taylor didn’t want to put out as often as he would’ve liked. Harry is a young boy, with ladies throwing themselves at him and has had a string of relationships with older women. It’s no secret he’s sexually active and is enjoying his fame at the moment. But Taylor just wasn’t up for it as much as he is. They were sexually incompatible.” That’s certainly reason enough for a split, but I hate the thought that Taylor was dumped for not putting out, instead of them having a mature conversation about what they wanted from the relationship.
Here comes my public service announcement: Don’t have sex if you don’t want to! And always use protection! I think the best bit of this story is that, instead of change who she was for Harry, Taylor accepted the state of their affair and moved on! Do you think this is the cause of their split, or did other disagreements contribute?